Happy Fall


Halloween came and went. Jack and Hazey were feeling the spirit.


We had pizza with the gang and then ventured out to trick-or-treat. Jack ran with the big-kid crowd this year, and my parents and I hung back with Princess Leia.

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Later, there was more excitement than I would have expected over fresh squeezed orange juice.


We had a sleepover with the cousins.


And a morning sing-along.


And, in early November, we had family pictures taken. Do not be fooled, this was the worst day of the year. Hazey cried for fifteen minutes, and Jack was an absolute beast. Billy spazzed at him so hard I swear I saw the photographer kick a rock and take a picture of a cloud just to avert her eyes. I pitted out my sweater and bribed the kids with Skittles like you read about. The fact that we look like a shiny, put-together family is due to solid acting and the miraculous skills of Laura Truett.


And, with that, I am caught up. I love this time of year.

A Year’s Worth of Material: Part III


My favorite time of year is in full swing. I have had the spiced chestnut candle burning and Vince Guaraldi on the stereo since November 1st. I also recently discovered Mexican Chocolate flavored Coffee Mate. I am in heaven.

Way back in September, Jack and Hazey had their first day of pre-school (Jack’s last before he starts Kindergarten).

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Also in early fall, Jack took a stab at soccer on Saturday mornings. He seemed to like it better than he did t-ball. Hazey was a happy little cheerleader… or an angry terrorist depending on the day.


Day by day, we are uncovering more of Hazey’s personality. Safe to say, there are many layers. She makes me laugh so hard.


And, she is still, by all accounts, a Daddy’s Girl.


As a side note, lately I have taken to dressing Hazey like an extra on the set of The Sound of Music. At four years old, Jack will wear nothing but Star Wars t-shirts and pants with holes in the knees. And so, because I know big ugly Elsa t-shirts are on the horizon, I am going for broke while I have the chance.

The beautiful fall weather had us biking into Excelsior and eating on the patio at Maynard’s well into October. (Toddler fashionista in tow).


Saturday morning breakfast has been a staple too.


We also initiated Schuett Family Dinners on Sunday nights. Each visit inevitably entails some sort of duel between Billy and our niece Taylor (Harry Potter spells, wrestling matches, fake phone calls to Dumbledore). She is the most hilarious third-grader I know.


Other than that, just lots of time outside enjoying the beautiful weather.

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A Year’s Worth of Material: Part II


After Christmas, we did our best to enjoy the winter weather here at home.

Winter 4 Winter 3And when it arrived, we were grateful for the spring.

Summer 1In early June, the city repaired a pipe under our street. Jack posted up on the front step to eat his meals for three days.

Summer 2We spent afternoons with legos and coloring books.

Summer 3 Summer 4And, we enjoyed the scenery and the park at Bread and Pickle.

Summer 5 Summer 6 Summer 7 _DSC3074 Summer 8 Summer 9 Summer 10 Summer 11The kids went to school one day a week this summer. On her first day, Hazey held her little lunch box on the lawn for a picture and made my heart melt.

_DSC3144 Summer 12 Summer 13And, when he wasn’t in school, Jack was really tied down with paperwork.

Summer 14We spent a good chunk of our weekends at the cabin. That place is my favorite thing about summer.

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In late June, Grandpa worked in the garden and Jack volunteered to help. His services lasted one plant’s worth before pulling up a stool to audit. I once saw a CBS Sunday Morning story about a dog and an elephant who became best friends. The love affair between these two reminds me of that story.

Summer 20 _DSC3422 _DSC3388 _DSC3443All of our swimming one weekend, brought with it the scourge of Minnesota summers– Swimmers’ Itch. Jack was a pretty good sport about it. Poor kid looked like a leper for a good week.

Summer 21 Summer 22 Summer 23From then on, we did our swimming in the middle of the lake. Jack loved jumping off the pontoon into the water.

Summer 24 Summer 25The Fourth of July came and I got really obnoxious with the outfits and the setting up of photos. Bear with me. I love this holiday, and Hazey’s dress just killed me.

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For most of the remainder of the summer, we followed Becky’s lead and adopted the Sunday morning ritual of visiting the Farmer’s Market to buy fruit and flowers for the week.

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And, Jack started t-ball in July.

It was cute for a few minutes.

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But, Jack’s level of interest was,  well…

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Though, Hazey found ways to keep herself occupied.

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All in all, the kids really were kind to each other this summer. They don’t get on each other’s nerves too terribly yet, and there are moments of such sweetness between them it melts my heart.

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And, in August we took the little squirrels to the Science Museum while the Space exhibit was going on.

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A Year’s Worth of Material: Part I


It’s been almost a year since I’ve written. That makes me so sad. I have a nagging feeling in the back of my mind that tells me this year will have never really happened if I don’t have it recorded in history. So rather than starting fresh, I’m attempting a massive catch-up post in two parts. Here we go.

Last summer, we spent weekends at the lake dining out at the Long Bridge.

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_DSC6502The bravest of us, pausing between bites of her burger to make the jump.

Late Summer 4We cruised the still, morning water on the pontoon every chance we got.

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_DSC6461Maddie liked to dress up for the occasion. (The youngest and most laid back of the family doesn’t pack a suitcase. Relies instead on whatever may turn up in the back of Dad’s closet).

Late Summer 2We swam when the evenings were warm,

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and tested the waters in grandpa’s latest project– the sparkly green boat.

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Late Summer 10A few of us watched the inaugural ride from dry land.


We lounged and hunted clams during the day and sat around the bonfire at night.



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Late Summer 14And the Fourth of July came and went too.

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Back in St. Louis Park, we enjoyed our last few weeks in the little house on Colorado Avenue.

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_DSC7606And then we said a tearful goodbye.


_DSC7847Goodbye to the little shed that my dad helped us build, with the pretty windows that came from the lake cabin.


Late Summer 17Billy couldn’t take his sunglasses off on the day of the move. He didn’t want the movers to see his “allergies flaring up.”

Late Summer 18And, with that, we turned the page and started a new chapter.

_DSC7724After the move, we took one last trip to the lake, for the season, to baptize little Hazey Buckets, with God Parents, Eric and Marita, and their sweet little ones.




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_DSC7997And then we went back to school.

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Late Summer 16We spent a lot of our time last fall breaking in the new front yard.

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And, enjoying the view from the inside too.






When Halloween rolled around, we celebrated with cousins.


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When it comes to the dance floor, there is one Schuett cousin who feels the music a little deeper than the rest.

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And of course, there was trick or treating to be done.


MVP went to little CC, who clomped along in plastic high heels and a synthetic Elsa wig all eight blocks. Didn’t complain once. Someday, she’s going to be the best college roommate of all time.

Halloween 6As the weather turned chilly we curled up in the new house and enjoyed time with the littlest among us. She is the happiest, most fun baby to pal around with.

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And that sweet little Peanut turned 1 on November 26th. My parents were in town for Thanksgiving. It was such a happy time.

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Of course, the second Thanksgiving was over I started decorating for Christmas. I can’t help it. I wish the season would last from October to April.



In December, we had a cousins’ sleepover. Made pizzas, hot chocolate and watched a movie. Jack was in heaven.


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And we went to Jack’s school for the annual Christmas concert and had fun at a holiday party.


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We spent Christmas Eve with Billy’s family where I took video instead of pictures. …Video that I have yet to upload. Christmas day, we drove to the cabin to celebrate with my family.

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Jack tried ice fishing with grandpa.

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Christmas 11And, after a weekend of fun, we drove home.

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That makes half of our year. I’ll be back with the rest of our winter, spring, and summer soon. It’s good to be back.

Sweet Summertime


Can it really be August? How does that always happen so quickly?

We had a few backyard picnics over the last couple months.

Backyard LunchEnjoyed a concert of sorts,

Spring ConcertAnd tried for a photo shoot afterwards. Between total derailments and cookie bribes, this is the best it got.

Spring Concert 2We’ve done a lot of loving on the Littlest One. I can’t keep my lips off of her. Eight months old and she is still the happiest child in the universe.

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Hazey Love 2And lately, Billy does this thing when I am getting ready in the bathroom or hanging out with Jack in his room, where he has Hazey poke her little body around the corner of the hallway and say adult things like, “Hey mom, can I borrow the car keys? I need to run an errand,” in a voice that sounds just like Marge Simpson. It makes me pee my pants every time.


Of course, Jack also likes to be included in the game. Though, his appearance in the door frame is a bit more gangly these days.


We did breakfast with Grandma Nanny and Cousin Taylor.



And breakfast on the front step (watching the big truck work next door).

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There was a visit to the Detroit Lakes street fair.



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And busy days that led to very sleepy evenings. (I don’t think there is anything I love quite like watching my babies sleep at night).


Mostly, around home we’ve lounged and played. (Sometimes at the same time).

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_DSC5776Hazey Buckets has been trying her hand at real food. She’s hasn’t been much of a fan of the first few bites of any one thing.

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But she is cuter than a bug’s ear.


We’ve had a few weekends at the cabin too. One in particular which was spent watching, in awe, as my dad, his brother, and a few friends built a new sauna to replace the old one on our property. When it’s finished, it will have a sod roof. One day, I hope to top it with a resident goat.

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The rest of us worked… less hard.





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But, the biggest news for us this summer is that we sold our little house on Colorado Avenue. On Friday we will close on the new place and accept our standing as sell-outs true suburbanites.

And, true to form, I could not be more excited, and I could not be more sad.

A new chapter! A bigger yard! More square-footage! A kitchen wherein I can fully extend my arms!

The old chapter. The place where my first-born took his first steps. Walking distance to our best friends. An excuse never to have to use my kitchen.

I worry– am I saying goodbye to the simplest and happiest time in my life? This sweet little house where the walls are closing in, but where we are forced (for better or for worse) to really live with one another.

After a text discussion comprising a menagerie of emoticons, my dear friend Liz used actual letters to spell words. In doing so, she said to me, “Jump up and down! Those are my tears that we won’t be so near. When we move, I will be skipping out the door! Enjoy it!”

I think Liz is right.

And, I also think it is probably a good thing that I am dragging my feet a bit out the paint-chipped door of this old house.

There is a story I love about the time when my grandparents sold their family home in Jamestown, ND. They had built the home themselves, and in it, raised their three children, (my dad, their youngest). The day the moving trucks came, my grandmother clutched a permanent marker in her well-manicured hand and stepped with purpose downstairs into the basement. Once there, she set up a ladder and climbed to the top. Then, with her familiar, lovely penmanship, committed to the rafters, “This was a happy home.”

There is a lot of her in me.

So, I will take Liz’s advice. Hello new chapter!  And, I will always hold a piece of our sweet little house on Colorado Avenue in my heart.

Here goes nothing.


Ordinary Moments


Over Easter break at home, I sat on the couch holding hands with my grandpa while we watched my two kids playing. Jack was running around with a toy car and Hazey was lying on her back, kicking away and smiling. After a few minutes, he looked over at me and said, “Wow! Do you just get down on your knees every day and thank God for your life?”

I looked back at that scene through his eyes– a doctor, a husband, a father of three, friend to many, a man who served in the Korean war, built two homes, saw his children grow up and start beautiful families of their own, saw his grandchildren bring children of their own into the world. A man who has lived a life that a person could only hope for. And, here he was looking at my young family and exclaiming at its beauty. It gave me such pause; because, most of the time I am so caught up in the living of my life, that I don’t often stop to marvel at it with the gratitude I owe.

We found out this week that my grandpa has prostate cancer that has metastasized to his bones. He will leave the hospital tomorrow and Hospice will begin caring for him at his home with my grandma.

PoppyEd has said so many times over the past few years that he doesn’t want anyone to cry for him when he dies– that he has led a full and happy life, and that he is ready to go. It is a testament to a life well-lived that he feels that way. I am just not sure that I am ready for him to go. He means more to me than I can ever put into words.

This next batch of photos is a smattering of moments from everyday life over the last few months around here. They are photos that I often think of as so very ordinary– but with PoppyEd in mind, I am reminded that they are the very moments that make up a lifetime’s worth of beautiful memories.

PoppyEd– these are for you. Thank you for teaching me how to keep my nose clean, remember my name, and “Watch out for the deer.” …And, thank you for reminding me to pay attention the beauty in ordinary moments.

I love you past the moon.


























The Nerdiest Ninja


I’ve been back at work now for three weeks, and mostly, it’s been wonderful. Co-workers seemed genuinely happy to have me back, and that made me feel valuable– which was a nice change from feeling greasy. I love my job, and that is no small blessing.

I was going to title this post, “We’re Living in a Meth House.” So there’s that, also. The clutter is worse than usual, not only because I’ve added work to my already overflowing plate (and I’m a poor multi-tasker), but also because our dreams of moving to a bigger home are becoming more acute, and that makes me feel like I have one foot out the door. (One dirty-socked and shoeless foot). As it is, the walls feel like they are closing in on our jumpy seats, and jingle pads, and Boppy chairs, and christmas ornaments. I have waved the white flag to the encroaching junk, and now as I bounce Hazey from room to room, I have actual moments of laughter as I hurtle over the Dumping Ground that is our current state of being. My dreams of late have drifted to mud room lockers and charging stations. It’s all very grown up.

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And, with being back at work, comes the familiar-to-many challenge of the morning routine. Anyone who has attempted (morning after morning) to coax a three-year-old out the door by a specific and very relevant hour, knows the pain with which I speak, when I say, “Oh dear Jesus Lord, help me.”

The realtime deadline is what kills us. We have a certain number of minutes for a certain number of tasks to be performed, and then, when too many of those tasks fall outside the allocated timeline, I am late to work. The deadline is real and the stress level is high.

Three-year-olds have a built-in microchip for sensing these tenuous scenarios. Jack smells my “late-to-work pheromones” and then exploits the shit out of me by melting down at the ask of every menial errand. In these instances, he is only capable of speaking in Whine, which pierces my sweaty eardrums and leads me to spaz– which leads to more of his tears, which eventually leads to mine. (I have actually cried– once– standing in the driveway, outside my car, after buckling in both kids (crying), and shutting their doors. I would love to know what the neighbors thought of that episode.)

After one week of this, I decided there had to be a better way. So, I made a sticker chart. …And, an angel came down from heaven, and she said, “There shall be a miracle bestowed unto this house of baby toys and squaller.”

This sticker chart is my pride and joy. I could not love it more had I birthed it from my own loins rather than nerded-out with my desktop laminator for two straight days.

It is genuinely embarrassing how proud I am of this dumb thing.



I explained the chart to Jack, and then took him to the store to pick out some very masculine stickers. Each morning, as he completes a task, he puts one of his very masculine stickers in the designated box, and if he gets all of his stickers that morning, he gets to choose a jelly bean before we leave the house.

What a sucker.

Mornings now, he runs around the house, taking care of himself, without even a word of my direction. It is no less than a Miracle straight from Baby Jesus. And it is my most ninja parenting move thus far.


Those little chore pictures are attached with Velcro so we can remove the winter gear and add new summer tasks when the weather is warmer. I told you I nerded out.


He gets so pumped about the stickers. He keeps them in his bedside table drawer and picks them out before bed.



_DSC3278Hazey gets more fun by the day. She is the sweetest baby with the happiest demeanor which makes her all the easier to adore. Every time Billy picks her up, she reaches her tiny little hand up to feel his beard. And she is content to do so for hours.



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And, happily, the weather has been nicer and we’ve been getting out of the house a bit.



Also, we welcomed a new member to the family a few weeks ago. My brother and his wife brought home the sweetest little Golden Doodle puppy. Macy and Jack made fast friends. 



Though, I think Jack would rather spend his time with Uncle Charlie’s remote controlled helicopter.


Lately, I’ve noticed birds singing in the mornings where there were none, and that might be my favorite day of the year– the day the song birds come back. Happy spring.



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